For me personally, I’d describe myself as a bit nomadic. I’ve always flitted between different groups, sometimes not feeling like I really “belonged” or like I could be myself. And don’t get me started on my neighbours, I don’t know anyone’s name! Thankfully, I found my true clan at university — and the feeling is like no other.
There is a great sense of pride in knowing that you are part of something collective. Community itself can literally be found anywhere: whether it’s virtual, theatrical, part of LGBTQ+ or activist movements. You don’t necessarily have to go looking for it, it really comes down to joining what feels right to you. Here are a few tips to help you find your community.
From hobby to full-time membership
The easiest place to start is by acknowledging your hobbies or pastimes — what do you enjoy doing? Chances are, there are hundreds of other people who enjoy it too, and therefore, there will be meeting centres which house these hobbies. All you need to do is research where and how you can get to them.
Let’s say you’re learning a new language and want to practise it with like-minded people. Duolingo sets up bi-weekly receptions at your local hall, just sign up to meet-and-greet fellow companions who share your love for languages. This is the same for any niche interests, like crochet, book clubs, or amateur dramatics. Get your fix in the spotlight no matter what your age is! Over time, you’ll spot some similar faces and feel a sense of community — but you won’t know if you don’t try.
Follow the prophet
Are you a particularly religious person or maybe want to find faith? Well then, what better way is there than to source your local place of worship! Religion is one of the most wholesome communities, which practically oozes with love and kindness. Most scriptures preach about how important it is to welcome and support others, so you’ll quickly blend into the group. The best part is that religion doesn’t need to be competitive or something you need to perfect. In fact, everyone is there for the same reason: to connect.
Discover the Pride Land
We live in an inclusive and thriving LGBTQ+ world. Whilst their fight hasn’t gone without suffering, this community is particularly empowering towards their members. Since the 1970s, every year a Pride Parade is hosted in countries worldwide; people from all walks of life join together to celebrate their sexuality. Not only is this a beautiful thing to witness, but it’s also even more heart-warming to be a part. This is a close-knit inner circle, whose mission is to bond over shared experiences and boost each other.
If you are struggling with your sexuality, or embrace it and want to share this joy with others, then your clan is probably right around the corner! Try using MeetUp to see where your nearest group and meeting point is. Even if you identify as heterosexual, you could become part of a movement that changes the world.
Online and virtually friendly
Another great way to find a community where you feel you truly belong is through online platforms. This is where you commonly bond over similar interests, for example, joining a fandom. Have you ever noticed how unified fans are over certain bands or singers? I’m not talking about the screaming girl stereotype, but simply a place where you share and discuss your love for particular things.
Social media platforms like Instagram or YouTube are coincidentally the best ways to locate your online tribe. I know of some influencers who dub their fans the “12/10 club” or “little nuggets”, and all members feel part of something special. There are many that advocate for positive mental wellbeing, and stumbling upon these accounts can really be a blessing in a time of crisis. Whilst it can just be a pen-pal situation, sometimes these groups meet in real life. So why not create an online profile and join these communities? Although you’re connecting through a screen, you weirdly feel like you’re part of a family.
Long story short…
Finding a community is as simple as joining a club or meeting online. Your tribe is where you become part of a collective, united by your beliefs or interests.You are effectively choosing your own family and creating long-lasting friendships — so you will never feel out of place or unloved. Don’t be afraid of joining too late or thinking your passions are premature, the point is that you’re all in it together!
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